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"I feel bad after this person disgraced before everyone"
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1Peter 4:14 "If you be reproached for the name of Christ, happy are you; for the spirit of glory and of God rests upon you: on their part he is evil spoken of, but on your part he is glorified."
Colossians 3:3 "For you are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God."
A sense of shame is the symptom of self-centeredness. We have no been called to live a self-centered life but a Christ-centered Christ-conscious life
Isaiah 53:3 "He is despised and rejected of men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief: and we hid as it were our faces from him; he was despised, and we esteemed him not."
In Christ Jesus every trace of disgraced has been replaced with His glory by His grace
"I am hurting because this person misunderstood my good intentions/what I said"
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2Peter 3:15 And account that the longsuffering of our Lord is salvation; even as our beloved brother Paul also according to the wisdom given unto him has written unto you;
2Peter 3:16 "As also in all his epistles, speaking in them of these things; in which are some things hard to be understood, which they that are unlearned and unstable twist, as they do also the other scriptures, unto their own destruction."
John 5:39
Matthew 13:15 "
Proverbs 1:5 ,5 "A wise man will hear, and will increase learning; and a man of understanding shall attain unto wise counsels:",6 "To understand a proverb, and the interpretation; the words of the wise, and their riddles."
Romans 8:6 For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.
Titus 1:15 Unto the pure all things are pure: but unto them that are defiled and unbelieving is nothing pure; but even their mind and conscience are defiled.
Jude 1:10 ,10 "But these speak evil of those things which they know not: but what they know naturally, as brute beasts, in those things they corrupt themselves.",11 "Woe unto them! for they have gone in the way of Cain, and ran greedily after the error of Balaam for reward, and perished in the rebellion of Korah."
2Peter 2:12 "But these, as natural brute beasts, made to be taken and destroyed, speak evil of the things that they understand not; and shall utterly perish in their own corruption;"
1Peter 3:16 "Having a good conscience; that, whereas they speak evil of you, as of evildoers, they may be ashamed that falsely accuse your good behavior in Christ."
Acts 6:10 ,10 And they were not able to resist the wisdom and the spirit by which he spoke.,11 "Then they bribed men, who said, We have heard him speak blasphemous words against Moses, and against God."
Hebrews 12:3 ,3 "For consider him that endured such hostility of sinners against himself, lest you be wearied and faint in your minds.",4 "You have not yet resisted unto blood, striving against sin."
sometimes people misunderstand you not because of how you said a thing but because of their erroneous ways of looking at things
"It is a sign of weakness to forgive easily"
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1Corinthians 1:25 Because the foolishness of God is wiser than men; and the weakness of God is stronger than men.
What man sees as weakness is what God sees as strength
"When you forgive people easily, you give then license to continue to hurt you"
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Isaiah 33:24 "And the inhabitant shall not say, I am sick: the people that dwell in it shall be forgiven their iniquity."
The power of forgiveness is the same power for healing. How easily we forgive is how easily we are healed from offences\Isa 33:24 How easily we forgive determines how easily the healing power of God can flow into our lives\Matt 18:35Isa 33:24 How easily we forgive others determines how easily we receive the forgiveness of God into our lives and how easily we receive God's forgiveness is how easily we are healed and restored\Matt 18:35 We can forgive others as easily as we have received God's forgiveness. The evidence of our reception of God's forgiveness in our lives is the ease with which we forgive others
Luke 7:47 "
Galatians 6:9 "And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not."
1John 2:2 "And he is the propitiation for our sins: and not for ours only, but also for the sins of the whole world."
"He only said this to hurt me"
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1Corinthians 13:5 "Does not behave itself rudely, seeks not her own, is not easily provoked, keeps no record of evil;"
suspecting that someone has evil intentions against you is often due to our consciousness of self. Love which is the basis for all our dealings with men is not only self-conscious but is not suspicious of evil intentions in people's actions or words towards it (no evil conscience)
"I am hurt because this person has betrayed me"
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John 2:24 ,24 "But Jesus did not commit himself unto them, because he knew all men,",25 And needed not that any should testify of man: for he knew what was in man.
The pain of betrayal is avoided by knowing that Only Jesus is worthy of our trust and our trust in Him can be seen in our trusting and following His ways; not trusting ourselves to others because that was His way. He did that because He knew that the seed of betrayal is in man's nature.
Matthew 26:24
God's judgement on those who betray others is enough to completely deal the betrayal making it seem as if the one who betrayed never existed.
"I feel so hurt by what he did/said"
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Psalm 119:165 Great peace have they who love your law: and nothing shall offend them.
James 2:8 "If you fulfill the royal law according to the scripture,
Galatians 6:2 "Bear you one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ."
1Corinthians 13:7 "Bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
Those who truly walk in the law of love which is the law of God can never really be offended because love can bear any burden of offense without being hurt
Philippians 4:8 "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things."
The health of our soul depends on the absence of hurt and the absence of hurt depends on what our mind is focused on. I choose to stop focusing on what will bring me hurt.
Colossians 3:3 "For you are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God."
Galatians 2:20 "I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ lives in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me."
We cannot be hurt by the actions and words of people when we are dead to self or our lives are hidden in Christ for a dead man cannot feel hurt
"I feel very bad when I disappoint people"
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Psalm 62:11 God has spoken once; twice have I heard this; that power belongs unto God.
1John 1:9 "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
Philippians 4:8 "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things."
2Corinthians 5:21 "For he has made him, who knew no sin, to be sin for us; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him."
Romans 8:28 "And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose."
2Corinthians 9:8 "And God is able to make all grace abound toward you; that you, always having all sufficiency in all things, may abound to every good work:"
"I am hurt because this person's betrayal"
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John 2:24 ,24 "But Jesus did not commit himself unto them, because he knew all men,",25 And needed not that any should testify of man: for he knew what was in man.
The hurt of betrayal is avoided by knowing that Only Jesus is worthy of our trust and our trust in Him can be seen in our trusting and following His ways; not trusting ourselves to others because that was His way. He did that because He knew that the seed of betrayal is in man's nature.
Matthew 26:24
The judgment of God on those who betray others is enough to completely deal the betrayal making it seem as if the one who betrayed never existed.
"I feel so hurt by what he did/said to me"
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Psalm 119:165 Great peace have they who love your law: and nothing shall offend them.
Those who truly walk in the law of love which is the law of God can never be offended because love can bear any burden of offense without being hurt
James 2:8 "If you fulfill the royal law according to the scripture,
Galatians 6:2 "Bear you one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ."
1Corinthians 13:7 "Bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
Philippians 4:8 "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things."
The health of the soul depends on the absence of hurt and the absence of hurt depends on what our mind is focused on. I choose to stop focusing on what will bring me hurt.
Colossians 3:3 "For you are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God."
We cannot be hurt by the actions and words of people when we are dead to self and our lives are hidden in Christ because a dead man cannot feel hurt
Galatians 2:20 "I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ lives in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me."
"I will stop helping them, then they will know how important I am to them"
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Ecclesiastes 11:6 "In the morning sow your seed, and in the evening withhold not your hand: for you know not which shall prosper, either this or that, or whether they both alike shall be good."
We should never stop sowing the seed of help to others for any reason because any of these seeds can make all see your importance. Your importance is not seen in the withholding of your helping hand but is seen in the holding of your hands in helping others.
Proverbs 3:27 "Withhold not good from them to whom it is due, when it is in the power of your hand to do it."
Psalm 62:11 God has spoken once; twice have I heard this; that power belongs unto God.
Philippians 2:7 "But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men:"
The power to help others is given so we can serve others but we cannot serve effectively when we do not sacrifice our reputation
"I did it because I did not want to hurt him"
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John 12:43 For they loved the praise of men more than the praise of God.
It is more rewarding and honorable to prefer to hurt man than hurting God or prefer the praise of God than the praise of men
Romans 2:29 "But he is a Jew, who is one inwardly; and circumcision is that of the heart, in the spirit, and not in the letter; whose praise is not of men, but of God."
"He wil be hurt if I tell him the truth"
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John 8:32 "
Truth sets people free from far greater hurts than it might temporarily bring
Luke 12:2 "
truth cannot be hidden forever. when revealed early it might break or hurt so that it can mend and heal even more deadly wounds but when revealed late it crushes or destroys completely
Luke 20:18 "
John 14:6 "Jesus said unto him,
revealing of the truth is worship and honour to God because Christ is the truth
"I feel hurt by what this person said"
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Philippians 4:8 "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things."
Anything that disturbs the peace of your soul is not worth brooding and thinking about
Philippians 4:6 ,6 Be anxious for nothing; but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.,7 "And the peace of God, which passes all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus."
1Peter 5:7 Casting all your care upon him; for he cares for you.
Colossians 3:3 "For you are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God."
Colossians 3:2 "Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth."
"I feel cheated, despised, used, taken granted, & thought as a fool by others"
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1Corinthians 4:9 ,9 "For I think that God has set forth us the apostles last, as appointed to death: for we are made a spectacle unto the world, and to angels, and to men.",10 "We are fools for Christ's sake, but you are wise in Christ; we are weak, but you are strong; you are honorable, but we are despised.",11 "Even unto this present hour we both hunger, and thirst, and are naked, and are buffeted, and have no certain dwelling place;",12 "And labor, working with our own hands: being reviled, we bless; being persecuted, we endure it:",13 "Being defamed, we entreat: we are made as the filth of the world, and are the trash of all things unto this day.",14 "I write not these things to shame you, but as my beloved sons I warn you.",15 "For though you have ten thousand instructors in Christ, yet have you not many fathers: for in Christ Jesus I have begotten you through the gospel.",16 "Therefore I beseech you, be followers of me."
Any mistreatment against me for Christ's sake yields for me incomparable great treatment from God
Ephesians 1:6 "To the praise of the glory of his grace, in which he has made us accepted in the beloved."
My value is in the grace of God and not in people. I am one of God's most valuable treasures what men say or do not say what men do or do not do can never change my value in God
"I will forgive him after he pays for that offence"
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1John 4:10 "In this is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins."
Christ did not just forgive us but also took the punishment of our sins
Matthew 5:23 "
The longer we stay in unforgiveness the longer we stay disconnected from God. The more we give reasons for our unforgiveness the more there will be reasons to disconnect us from God
"It is not possible for a man to forgive this offence"
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Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
Galatians 2:20 "I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ lives in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me."
Galatians 5:22 ,22 "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,",23 "Meekness, self-control: against such there is no law."
Colossians 3:3 "For you are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God."
Romans 8:6 For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.
2Corinthians 5:17 "Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creation: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new."
"I have forgiven him but I will not be satisfied till he apologises to me"
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Romans 12:19 "Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written,
Romans 14:17 "For the kingdom of God is not food and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit."
Satisfaction is from God's rule in our hearts and not from others
Philippians 4:4 "Rejoice in the Lord always: and again I say, Rejoice."
There is ever no sufficient reason to be unsatisfied
Jeremiah 9:24 "
Our knowledge of God as the perfect judge of all the earth should be enough to satisfy our desire for justice
"I am offended because he never sees anything good in what I am doing"
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Colossians 3:23 "And whatsoever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men;"
Ephesians 6:6 "Not with eye service, as men pleasers; but as the servants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart;"
2Corinthians 5:10 "For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ; that everyone may be recompensed for the things done in his body, according to what he has done, whether it be good or bad."
"I am offended because this person did not give me any recognition"
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Colossians 1:18 "And he is the head of the body, the church: who is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead; that in all things he might have the preeminence."
John 12:43 For they loved the praise of men more than the praise of God.
1Timothy 6:17 "Charge them that are rich in this present age, that they be not haughty, nor trust in uncertain riches, but in the living God, who gives us richly all things to enjoy;"
Colossians 3:3 "For you are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God."
"I am afraid of showing my feelings lest I hurt someone"
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1Peter 5:7 Casting all your care upon him; for he cares for you.
Romans 12:15 "Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep."
1Corinthians 12:26 "And whether one member suffers, all the members suffer with it; or one member be honored, all the members rejoice with it."
"It is all my fault that this person hurt me"
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1Peter 5:7 Casting all your care upon him; for he cares for you.
Philippians 4:6 ,6 Be anxious for nothing; but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.,7 "And the peace of God, which passes all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.",8 "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things."
John 7:24 "
Hebrews 10:22 "Let us draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled from an evil conscience, and our bodies washed with pure water."
"He has repaid the help I gave him with evil, I will not help him again"
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Matthew 5:44 "
Hebrews 10:17
"I will never help him again because he never appreciated my help"
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Colossians 3:23 "And whatsoever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men;"
Ephesians 6:6 "Not with eye service, as men pleasers; but as the servants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart;"
"If you/I had done this and that, this wouldn't have happened"
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Philippians 3:13 "Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before,"
Luke 9:62 "And Jesus said unto him,
"I don't want to commit to anyone because I am afraid of being hurt"
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2Corinthians 5:7 "(For we walk by faith, not by sight:)"
Proverbs 3:5 ,5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart; and lean not unto your own understanding.,6 "In all your ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct your paths."
"I am afraid my views will be rejected. Why bother, It's better to keep quiet"
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2Corinthians 5:7 "(For we walk by faith, not by sight:)"
"I feel cheated, despised, used, taken for granted, thought of as a fool by him"
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1Peter 5:7 Casting all your care upon him; for he cares for you.
Philippians 4:6 ,6 Be anxious for nothing; but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.,7 "And the peace of God, which passes all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.",8 "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things."
"I just can't stand for people to reject me"
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John 12:43 For they loved the praise of men more than the praise of God.
"I cannot let him get away with it"
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Romans 12:19 "Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written,
"I will stop this church because they don't care for their members"
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2Chronicles 20:20 "And they rose early in the morning, and went forth into the wilderness of Tekoa: and as they went forth, Jehoshaphat stood and said, Hear me, O Judah, and you inhabitants of Jerusalem; Believe in the LORD your God, so shall you be established; believe his prophets, so shall you prosper."
"What If I propose and she rejects me, I would not be able to stand the embarrassment and hurt"
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2Corinthians 5:7 "(For we walk by faith, not by sight:)"
Romans 1:17 "For in it is the righteousness of God revealed from faith to faith: as it is written, The just shall live by faith."
Philippians 4:8 "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things."
Colossians 3:3 "For you are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God."
"I feel so hurt when people despise me"
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Philippians 2:3 Let nothing be done through strife or vain glory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than themselves.
Philippians 4:8 "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things."
Zechariah 2:8 For thus says the LORD of hosts;
Jeremiah 31:3 "The LORD has appeared of old unto me, saying,
"I don't like the way he talked to me"
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Philippians 2:3 Let nothing be done through strife or vain glory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than themselves.
Philippians 4:8 "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things."
Zechariah 2:8 For thus says the LORD of hosts;
Jeremiah 31:3 "The LORD has appeared of old unto me, saying,
Colossians 3:13 "Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do you."
"I will stop helping him because, he doesn't value my help"
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Colossians 3:23 "And whatsoever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men;"
Ephesians 6:6 "Not with eye service, as men pleasers; but as the servants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart;"
Mark 12:31 "
Galatians 6:9 "And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not."
The glory and grace of God always rests and manifests in the lives of those who are disgraced for Christ's sake